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One
strategy used by action avoiding experts is, ironically, not stay-at-home-under-the-bed,
but quite the opposite: filling life with too many options, having
too much to do. Our culture encourages this. Someone with long
working hours can appear very committed yet be far from vested
in her own interests. Think of the perpetual student, always taking
one more course or degree before feeling he can go out and apply
what he has learned.
Action
avoiding can take many forms. On one extreme there is the seeker
of enough things, enough security, enough in the bank account;
eternally waiting still another year before a plan of satisfying
action can be undertaken. At another extreme is one person I know
who is undecided about which of his talents to use because each
of them entails the increased use f environmentally impactful
products; i.e., to publish a book would use paper and encourage
burning of fossil fuels. Will he ever actually do anything? Ever?
Some
tented arch experts seem cursed with wealth from an early age:
when one endeavor proves difficult, it may be passed off lightly
in favor of something else rather than requiring the kind of push
necessary for discovering motivated commitment. In this way, one
remains in a condition of evaluation of prospects, one of judgment
and inertia. But the satisfaction, of course, is found in taking
the action. Even if the course of action proves to be a "wrong"
one, it is an action towards the "right' one.
Among
tented-archers, most are likely to stand at the start of the obstacle
course, taking mental measurements, considering, planning. They
may try to find their identity and fulfillment at this stage,
holding back from the starting line. But eventually they will
find their power of in movement. They have chosen particularly
dramatic situations through which to grow; the rest of us can
salute and learn from them.
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