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As
evidenced by fingerprints, some of us are more concentrated than
others on the path of service. The fingerprint pattern that identifies
a particular involvement on this path is the whorl, which looks
like a series of concentric circles in the core of the fingerprint.
As you might guess, the more whorls, the greater is the emphasis
in the person's life on service. The presence of four or more
whorls in a set of hands indicates a life-long quest for balance
between service and sacrifice. Trial and error is likely to reveal
that offering oneself as a doormat doesn't benefit anyone; neither
does the gesture with the hidden motives. Service is an attitude,
not an activity; the key seems to be the necessity for equal shares
of benefit to he recipient, to the self, and to the planet.
In
the case of someone whose fingerprints are all whorls, a specific
story emerges which can be of interest to all of us. This is the
person whose attraction to the path of service is so keen that
unusual measures must be taken to satisfy - to use up - all appetites.
Unresolved cravings could otherwise arise as interferences to
completely committed service.
Think
how difficult this could be in our society! Think of the pious
parent, imbued with notions of charity and self-sacrifice, faced
with a child whose need is first and foremost to be self-indulgent!
Think of marrying the grown-up child whose appetites had been
thwarted by parents, teachers, Scouts, and the criminal justice
system! Think of BEING the child.
We
all have appetites and, regardless of how they are seen by others,
it is part of our responsibility to feed them appropriately. No,
not our excesses: those are consequences of hungers that have
gone unattended. It is up to each of us to work back toward our
basic drives, to satisfy them according to our own innate standards.
Hand analysis is one of the tools for self-discovery: the hands
themselves offer more objective opinions than society about what
works for each of us.
A
colleague was invited a few months ago to analyze the hands of
autistic children in a small Special Education classroom. Prints
of each child's hands were taken. Judging by the information in
the hands, each child had a very different story from the next.
But there was one thing they tended to have in common, and that
was an unusually large percentage of whorls among their fingerprints.
Even though this wasn't a reasonable sampling, it struck me that
autism may function for these kids as a forcible screening out
of external influences, affording them a special opportunity to
concentrate on satiating their own appetites.
Could
an autistic lifetime contribute to one of deep commitment to service?
I don't know. But the speculation moved me toward a better care
and feeding of the animal inside me.
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