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In
our culture, if you wear hand adornment at all, it is likely to
be on (What do you know) the ring finger. But the tradition of
wearing jewelry on the ring finger encourages conscious and therefore
ambiguous messages regarding marital status and wealth, and has
little to say about inner workings. Rings displayed on the other
fingers contain more "inside information." For instance,
more is said about relationship potential by the presence
of rings on both little fingers than by the absence of
w wedding band. When that second pinkie ring was put on, its wearer
declared, "I want more intimacy and I'm going to get it!"
Generally,
the left hand is the more personal one, the right is the more
public. Rings are for emphasis; if the ring is large, the intention
is large. But any ring at all is notable and the less likely a
ring is to appear, the more potent its meaning. For example, how
often does one see a ring on a first finger? On a thumb? And how
much less often on men than women? The presence of more than one
ring on a single finger adds importance; several locations indicates
diffusion of focus. If a ring has a stone, its influence prevails:
reds excite, blues bring calm.
A
ring on the middle finger fortifies safety. In some way, the wearer
is expressing an attitude of practicality, order, and taking care
of business. If that finger is 1/2 inch or so longer than the
others, a ring enhances the person's sense of security in assuming
responsibility. Worn on a relatively short middle digit, a ring's
significance approximates the gesture most associated with the
finger!
An
accessory on the first finger deals with the wearer's coming to
grips with power. When you see a ring on this finger, how do you
and react? If you yourself can wear a trigger finger ring, then
maybe you respond positively. However, if you find some subtle
aversion to others who sport this ring, consider that you might
be among those who are uncertain of their own inner resources.
(Uncertain? Me? Resistant to my own power?) It could be interesting
at that next job interview to wear a ring around your right pointer
finger, or for that visit with your parents to slip something
comfortable on the first finger of your left hand.
Ornamentation
on the thumb is rare, but when it is there it is to enhance the
capacity to get results. Next month we'll take a good look at
King Solomon's Ring and that will bring us just about full circle.
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